First, let's look at the original text (the original text is from a post on the CSDN forum):

I found a programmer as my husband, so I got to know many programmers. I never had a bad impression of programmers before, and now even less so. I've noticed that there are always pessimistic views on CSDN saying that programmers can't find wives. Today, as a programmer's wife, I'm going to write about the benefits of having a programmer as a husband. I hope it can serve as a reference for all MM (girls) to find a programmer GG (guy) as a boyfriend.

1. With a programmer, you don't have to worry about an affairProgrammers work facing computers, and most of their colleagues are male. In his life, he basically doesn't come into contact with MM (girls), so there will be no office romance, and thus no affair problems. Moreover, they face fewer temptations, unlike positions such as sales that require dealing with outsiders and have many social engagements, thus facing more temptations and being prone to affairs. Jianjian often works overtime until midnight, and I am very reassured; my only concern is whether his body can handle it.

2. Programmers are very obedientIn the workplace, if the boss asks for overtime, they work overtime. At home, they listen to whatever their wife says. MM (girls), isn't it nice to have an obedient husband? He may not be as romantic as you imagine, giving you surprises, but he will faithfully remember every word you say and act according to your requirements.

3. Programmers are very patientI don't need to say much about this reason; without patience, how could one write code? This will become a great advantage when MM becomes a mother. I am an impatient person. If I teach Xiao Jian something and he can't learn it, I would lose patience and get angry, but Jianjian is very patient and will play with him, gradually teaching Xiao Jian.

4. Programmers are very meticulousWriting code is delicate work; without care, there will be bugs. And when bugs are written, you need to find them patiently and carefully. In life, for a careless MM, isn't it good to have a meticulous GG to take care of you? Anyway, in our family, I am the careless type, and Jianjian is the meticulous type.

5. Programmers are very helpfulWhen brothers on the forum have difficulties, they will lend a hand. In life, when friends have computer problems, they will help solve them. If my colleagues or friends around me have computer problems, Jianjian handles them all.

6. Programmers are IT expertsMaybe this is a bit exaggerated, but with a programmer husband around, you don't have to worry about many computer-related matters. Way back when I was doing public teaching and needed courseware, Jianjian made it for me. Up to now, when the home router needs to be set up, or the computer has a virus and the system needs to be reinstalled. Then there was the Kaixin.com Lancome "Pink-collar Beauty" voting, and Jianjian provided technical support. Incidentally, by being close to Jianjian, I've been influenced, and after seeing so much, I've also become a computer expert at my workplace. I can handle many simple problems now.

7. Programmers are simpleI don't know if all programmers are like this, but my Jian is like this; he has no ill intentions toward others. If he has no ill intentions toward outsiders, he won't have any toward you either. I once met a friend whose husband had an affair and wanted a divorce. He harbored many ill intentions and even transferred all the property before the divorce. After the divorce, my friend had no money and no house, yet she had given her youth to this man.

8. Programmers work overtime a lotThis may be a shortcoming, but sometimes it also seems like an advantage. He works overtime a lot, so you can have personal space and do what you like. My colleagues think I am much freer than they are. This is thanks to Jianjian's frequent overtime. He works overtime a lot, so you can take his card and go shopping. He has no time to spend money, so you spend it for him. Moreover, most programmers are very generous and won't say anything about their wives.

9. Programmers are cuteI don't know if this is related to the nature of the job. The programmers I know are all very honest, basically none are slick. The most honest thing about Jianjian is that every time before his salary is raised, as soon as he hears internal rumors, he tells me first. Whenever he gets a chance to receive cash bonuses, even if I wouldn't know if he didn't tell me, he would always hand it over to me. The cutest and most honest time was at this year's company annual party; he won a cash prize of 4000. He immediately called me. Actually, if he told me it was 2000, I wouldn't know either. Moreover, after returning home at night, he insisted on waking me up to count the money, saying "count money until you naturally wake up." I guess he had drunk too much that night.

10. Programmers have a sense of responsibilityA programmer without a sense of responsibility will write code full of problems. Of course, it is precisely because they have a sense of responsibility and want to give their families a happy life that they work overtime desperately and work hard to earn money. My Jianjian is like this, and I believe all programmers are like this.

MM (girls), choosing a programmer as your husband won't be wrong. Trust me! In your future time together, you will discover more and more of their merits.

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The following is a list of netizens' rebuttal views:

1. About affairs
Actually, most of the friends I've seen are older programmers (of course not all). Especially those programmers who face more overtime pressure and have less contact with outsiders are, in the end, more likely to have affairs. On the contrary, those who are relatively outgoing and have more contact with people are less likely to. Why is that?
It's like a man imprisoned on a deserted island for a long time. When he finally sees the light of day again, he will immediately fall for the first woman he sees, without any reason.

2. Are programmers honest? Most programmers appear honest on the outside, but their inner hearts are restless, especially online and on QQ. "Mensao" (outwardly reserved but inwardly passionate) has become synonymous with modern programmers.

3. Just look at a programmer's expression when solving a bug, and you'll know that "many programmers are not very patient."

4. Programmers' meticulousness comes from "the sedimentation of life." Theoretically, the more novice the programmer, the more "careless" they are.

5. Whether a programmer is helpful depends on "whether you are a girl."

6. Programmers and IT experts are two different things. For example, when it comes to fixing computers, how many programmers really know how?

7. As for being simple and innocent, let's not even go there. If you create a QQ group with more than 10 programmers, maybe they will discuss technology at first. But in the end, their topics are either money or women. All crows in the world are equally black.

8. Do programmers work overtime a lot? Basically only rookies do. Skilled programmers rarely work overtime.

9. Sense of responsibility? Programmers often mired in project mud hate "sense of responsibility." Customer requirements change every day; our sense of responsibility has been eaten by dogs. Don't mention this to me.

Finally, MM (girls), combining the above 10 points and the following 9 points, would you still find a programmer as a husband? If you're not afraid, then come on. In fact, we are no different from normal men,except that we go to bed a little later.